Before I proceed with this blog, I say there is a fine line between being a party parent that refuses to let go of their childhood and doesn't spend quality time with their kid, versus the parent that still enjoys the social scene. We are the latter.
Parents know that raising a child is the most rewarding, but hardest job on earth. Between the power struggles, tantrums and overtime needed to level the playing field, my husband and I can't help but laugh about some of the fun and struggles we've experienced. I recently read an article entitled #SorryNotSorry Parenting Confessions, where parents negotiate a middle-ground between a battle with their child. With that said, my parenting confession is party nights in, versus out on the town.
I confess, my husband and I joke about the denial of having a baby and being parents when fun events approach because, "Damn! How are we going to attend that event now that we have a kid?! LOL" I mean let's be honest, a child completely alters how we spend every waking minute, especially days like today, Cinco de Mayo, or events like Kentucky Derby, fights nights like Mayweather vs Pacquaio, or even concerts and shows. Finding and dishing out $80-$120 for a babysitter on top of what we're already spending out on the town, is no bueno! We're young parents enjoying life to the fullest, and the joys brought with parenthood are an added bonus. However, to accommodate our lifestyle as new parents, we must modify our social life and circles so that we don't completely change the way we love to live and play, particularly because we are foodies and also love to entertain. Given there aren't many family friendly places that host events, we are 'those parents!' We are those parents that will put together the tailgate party, fight night, barbecue and host dinner events despite kids in tow. I mean, sacrifices have to be made, and we're willing to party with you! We'll take one for the team, and that's our #SorryNotSorry!
-OzzyMommy
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